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Wishes and regrets

There is no verb for « I wish »: two phrases do the work, and one is Arabic.

Words you will need3

They appear in this topic’s examples and exercises and are new at this point on the learning path.

  • o jeitothe way; the knack
  • simplessimple, easy
  • próprioown; itself

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Understand

Rememberquem me dera wishes, oxalá hopes, gostava que takes the Imperfeito do conjuntivo.

When

If and would — Here the condition decides the form, not the position on the clock.

Signal words
  • quem me dera
  • oxalá
  • gostava que
  • queria que
  • se ao menos

The form

How the forms are built

Each row gives the meaning first, then the form in Portuguese. The colours show what changes from one form to the next.

stem (regular) stem (irregular) tense marker person ending auxiliary verb negation

hopefully I will comeoxalá (eu) venha
hopefully you will comeoxalá (tu) venhas
hopefully he / she will come, you will comeoxalá (ele / ela / você) venha
hopefully we will comeoxalá (nós) venhamos
hopefully you will come, plural and formaloxalá (vós) venhais
hopefully they will come, you will come (plural)oxalá (eles / elas / vocês) venham
if only I cameoxalá (eu) viesse
if only you cameoxalá (tu) viesses
if only he / she came, if only you cameoxalá (ele / ela / você) viesse
if only we cameoxalá (nós) viéssemos
if only you came, plural and formaloxalá (vós) viésseis
if only they came, if only you came (plural)oxalá (eles / elas / vocês) viessem
if only I had knownse ao menos (eu) tivesse sabido
if only you had knownse ao menos (tu) tivesses sabido
if only he / she had known, if only you had knownse ao menos (ele / ela / você) tivesse sabido
if only we had knownse ao menos (nós) tivéssemos sabido
if only you had known, plural and formalse ao menos (vós) tivésseis sabido
if only they had known, if only you had known (plural)se ao menos (eles / elas / vocês) tivessem sabido
if only!quem me dera!
I wish he would comequem me dera que viesse
hopefully it will not rainoxalá não chova
if only it would rainoxalá chovesse
I would like you to staygostava que ficasses
if only I had knownse ao menos tivesse sabido

The rules one by one

The form this topic is aboutThe word that calls for it

  1. quem me dera plus infinitive or que plus Conjuntivo imperfeito: an unfulfilled wish.

    Quem me dera estar de férias!I wish I were on holiday!

  2. oxalá plus presente: hope; plus imperfeito: an unlikely wish.

    Oxalá chegues a tempo!I hope you arrive in time!

  3. gostava que and queria que take the Conjuntivo imperfeito.

    Gostava que me ouvisses.I would like you to listen to me.

  4. Regret about the past: se ao menos plus mais-que-perfeito do conjuntivo.

    Se ao menos tivéssemos tido mais tempo!If only we had had more time!

Example sentences

Quem me dera ter o teu jeito!I wish I had your knack!

Oxalá o comboio não esteja atrasado!I hope the train is not late!

Gostava que tudo fosse mais simples.I wish everything were simpler.

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Se ao menos ma tivesse dito ela própria!If only she had told me herself!

The trap English speakers fall into

Watch out

After gostava que comes the Conjuntivo imperfeito — viesse — and not the presente venha. Gostava is the polite form in the Imperfeito, and it pulls the Imperfeito after it. Gostava que venha is heard from learners and never from the Portuguese.

Wrong:Gostava que ele venha esta noite.
Right:Gostava que ele viesse esta noite.

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The full explanation

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English has a verb for this and Portuguese does not. « I wish » conjugates, takes a tense and opens a clause: « I wish he were here », « I wish I had known ». Here the job is done by two fixed expressions that do not conjugate at all.

Quem me dera! — literally who would give me — is the wish that will not come true: Quem me dera ter vinte anos! With a Conjuntivo imperfeito behind it, it becomes a whole sentence: Quem me dera que ele viesse.

Oxalá — from the Arabic, God willing — is hope: Oxalá não chova!with the presente do conjuntivo for what is possibleOxalá chovesse!with the imperfeito for what is unlikely The word came into Portuguese from Andalusi Arabic and kept both its shape and its job.

With a verb of wishing the Conjuntivo is needed: Gostava que ele viesse, Queria que tu ficasses. And for regret about the past: gostava de ter plus participle, or se ao menos — if only — with the mais-que-perfeito do conjuntivo.

The verbs on this page, in every form: ter · estar · dar · gostar · chegar · ouvir